How many times have you caught yourself thinking about “someday when I have more money”, “someday when this business helps me become wealthy”, “someday when I have enough money to buy my dream home, a new car, go on vacation…,”someday, someday, someday…

What about today? Yes, it is important to think about, feel about, and visualize what you want as I have discussed before, but make sure you are not spending all of your time thinking about what could be. Make sure you focus attention on what you have now and be grateful for it. I speak from experience when I say that life can just pass you by if you spend too much time thinking about “someday”. I have wasted precious time that could have been spent with my children thinking about what could be someday. I used to think, “If I do this now, then someday, we will be much better off financially and then I will have time to spend playing with my kids.” The problem was, I was thinking this everyday and my kids were growing up without the benefit of much playing time with mom.

Now I take my time to visualize, say my thanks for what I have and release it to the universe. I am then free to focus on today and what is in front of me–including my children.

In conclusion, don’t spend all day wishing. Your life will pass you by and then “someday” when you are old and gray, you will spend your days wishing you had not wished so much.